Never give up
16 May 2012 @ 2:28 AM

Hi guys, I stopped getting messages the other day so I thought I just tell you all that my ask is still open for questions or if you’re seeking advice xx 

2 weeks ago
14 May 2012 @ 4:05 AM
Anonymous asked: "so, me and my bestfriend had a fight because she knew i liked this guy and she would flirt with him infront of me. and we went movies few months ago (just before the fight happend) and they were acting like couples in the movies like full cuddling, and i don't know what to do cause i think he still likes my ex bestfriend and i really REALLY like him :("

Hi :) 

Well, I think you should start a conversation with him, if he acts flirty or anything, just ask who he is interested in. This way, you’re not giving away that you like him, OR that you’re wondering about him and your ex-bestfriend. But it really depends on whether you want to hurt her, because it would probably hurt her feelings if she know that you like him too, but if you’re willing to risk that for him then go ahead :)

Good luck x

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 6:18 AM
Anonymous asked: "So there's this guy I really like. We flirt over facebook a lot and I've met up with him once, but we were both too shy to make a move. I'm seeing him again this saturday. He calls me beautiful and stuff, but I'm not sure if he actually likes me? I really like him, but how do I know if he feels the same way about me?"

Hi :)

Well, he’s flirted with you, met up with you, he calls you beautiful… he definitely likes you. I don’t think you need to worry about that, just tell him that you like him when you see him on Saturday :)

good luck x

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 2:22 AM
Anonymous asked: "So I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and I'm just not feeling any spark. He should be perfect for me- he's sweet, he's cute, we like the same shit, etc- but my heart just doesn't appear to be into it. Should I talk to him about it, or just break up with him? I don't even feel like we're emotionally close enough to talk about it, to be honest. And he has yet to make any physical move on me."

Hi :)

Well, sharing the same interests with him isn’t going to magically make you two fall in love, sometimes opposites attract. Although, I must say he deserves a chance to prove himself a little more. Relationships can take turns for the worst, and sometimes the exact opposite happens. Just give it some time and maybe there will be that spark that you hope for :) If you do feel as though the relationship isn’t going to progress, tell him. He certainly deserves to know how you’re feeling about him.

Good luck x

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 2:11 AM
Anonymous asked: "hi so I'm really sad right now and I really don't have any friends and my boyfriend is asleep and I just need someone to talk to. Can I just talk to you or?"

Of course you can talk to me :)

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 2:09 AM
Anonymous asked: "i don't really know why i'm asking but here goes. i have had a thought in the back of my mind since i was probably 15 years old that i might be attracted to females (i am a female myself). that's fine and all, except i have been dating a boy the last few years of my life and i haven't really explored anything. it has been a back of my mind sort of thing really, til recently. i have been fixating on it more and more. i think i am finally realizing i might want to "come out". what do i do?"

Hi :)

Well, it’s fine that you think you might be lesbian, all I suggest is that you know 100% before you come out. I mean, don’t keep it a secret if you do want to tell someone, you could tell a few friends or family members, but yeah, it’s probably better that you make sure you really know who you’re attracted to, because you have dated boys, you could be bisexual. It’s just up to you to figure it all out. 

Sorry if anything I just said was stupid, good luck x

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 1:53 AM
Anonymous asked: "So, idk where i stand with this boy. He's really nice and everything but he told one ofmy friends he doesn't want a girlfriend for awhile. He's texting almost everyday like non-stop and he usually starts the convos.we chat in math class but i've never had a relationship before so i don't know if this is the begining of one."

Hi :)

Well, he may just be saying he doesn’t want a girlfriend, and even if he really doesn’t, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. If he texts you all the time and talks to you in class, I’m sure he does like you. It’s whether he likes you as a friend or whether he likes you as a crush is for you to find out. If you’re brave enough, just ask him if he likes you :)

Good luck x

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 1:20 AM
Anonymous asked: "My friend was in recovery from an eating disorder, and she texted me tonight saying she was purging. I feel so useless. I've never had an ED. I don't know how to help her. And now I'm trying to convince her to go back to her therapist/get some kind of help, but she's afraid they'll put her in in patient and she doesn't want to. Help? I just feel so lost."

Hi :)

First off, you’ve been a really good friend to her, some people lose friends for having an ED, but you’re still helping her. Secondly, get her help. She really needs it, don’t let her dig herself deeper into her disorder, the longer she goes without professional help the more unhealthy she’s going to get. There are hotlines that you can call, and people you can talk to who can help her. I know she doesn’t want help but she needs it.

good luck to you and your friend x

2 weeks ago
13 May 2012 @ 1:13 AM
Anonymous asked: "i think my dad's kicking me out his house, and to be honest im really glad because he and i arent too good on terms. i love him and he loves me but we just argue and fight way too much, id love to move out and get emancipated but that takes a little too much time. im thinking of just running away and pack up anything i need and becoming a traveler. should i? or should i just stay a bit longer. i'm about 17 years old..."

Hi :)

Well first off, you don’t really know for sure that he will kick you out, just hold onto that thought. He could just be mad, or going through some troubles he hasn’t told you about. Just start saving up money, and later on in maybe a year you could leave without the hassle of running away or getting emancipated. It may seem like you and your dad’s relationship is bad, but just try to make it work. You might even decide to stay. Just a bit of advice, whatever you two are fighting about, apologise. He will have more trust in you if you own up to anything you know you’ve done wrong, and then he might say sorry for things he’s said too. If you run away you could end up homeless, just wait it out a little longer, when you know you’re completely ready to move away :) 

Good luck x

2 weeks ago
12 May 2012 @ 9:37 PM
Anonymous asked: "I've known this guy for a week now. We met on a bar, we've been texting all week after that and we saw each other yestarday. It was shy but ok, Im really interested about him. The problem? He wants to know too much too soon. "Why do you want to see me again?", "What do you think of me?", "Interested in what way?". When I answered that i don't know the answer to these questions myself, he took it as if i was playing somekind of a game. I'm freaked out. Should I already know what I want from him?"

Hi :)

Well you’re interested in him, that’s all that counts. Tell him that you really like him, but you just need time to answer those sorts of questions. It’s okay to not know what you like about him just yet, just give it time and it’ll come naturally :) Just make sure he knows that it’s not a game, that you’re being serious and you just don’t know the answers to those questions yet, he has probably been hurt in the past if he’s acting like that, or maybe he just likes to know how much you like him. Anyway, tell him how you feel, and if a question comes up that you don’t know the answer to, just explain it to him so he can understand what’s going on. 

Good luck x

2 weeks ago